‘Tis The Season

by Marva Smith on November 25,

Photo: Oliver Schwarzwald. Source: Solid Frog

In my effort to slow down and refocus our family, I’ve made a conscious effort to concentrate on celebrating one holiday at a time, and enjoyed and lived fully in the moment of Thanksgiving. I’ll admit at times my thoughts did wander to Christmas preparations, and especially to the deals I missed out on by not participating in the Black Friday frivolity at midnight. I also suffered a mild panic attack overwhelmed by the thought that not “scoring” those coveted toys on my children’s wish list would send them straight to therapy and catapult me to winner of Worse Mother of the Year award. I’m happy to report though that I survived my guilty conscious and will be o.k.

Now that Thanksgiving is behind us, my attention has turned to Christmas and the intention I am setting for how our family celebrates this year. Up until now, I’ve been overly indulgent when it comes to Christmas. The reasons are many and unimportant to anyone other than me, but my dilemma is how to simplify things without the kids feeling cheated.

Setting Expectations

Whether you’re simplifying due to budget constraints, reducing clutter, refining your philosophy about what you give (e.g. no plastics, no battery operated toys), or if you’re like me, a combination of these, the key to refocusing is discussing and level setting expectations for the holiday. Engaging the kids in candid conversations, allowing them to voice their opinions and reaching consensus on gift giving and receiving, goes a long way.

Editing

As a practical matter, I’m refocusing my gift giving philosophy because we simply have too much already. It’s so easy to become distracted by that new shiny thing, discarding last year’s then new shiny thing. While I still have work to do when it comes to editing our current inventory (alas, that’s for another blog), I can more easily control what I bring into the house.

Clutter-free gifts

In my quest to balance celebrating this giving season without increasing the volume of our stuff, I plan to focus more on clutter-free gifts. Memberships to kid-friendly venues, activities and family experiences not only get us out of the house but is the stuff memories are made of.

O.k., so that’s the plan. Simple, right? Wish me luck! — mas

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10 Ways to Keep the Kids Busy Thanksgiving Week

by Marva Smith on November 21,

Jim Pond, Family In Convertible Somewhere in Texas. Currently on exhibit at the Chrysler Museum

Thanksgiving week is upon us which means the kids will be out of school for several days. In those spare moments between Thanksgiving meal preparations, dinner with friends and family, Black Friday shopping, putting up holiday decorations, and _________(fill in the blank), if your little darlings stare at you expectantly to provide them additional entertainment, here’s a smorgasbord of ideas to help you out. While several items on the list are Hampton Roads specific, most communities have similar venues to explore.

1. Museums and zoos always top my fav list of places to visit with the kids. Hampton Roads doesn’t disappoint, boasting several kid-friendly venues from which to choose. In coming weeks, I’ll post information about the various locations here. A few receiving my early, “budget-friendly” award are the Chrysler Museum (free admission) and The Virginia Zoo.

2. I just love planetariums and we’re fortunate to have several in our backyard! Calling all fellow star-gazers to check out the Abbitt Planetarium at the Virginia Living Museum, Newport News, VA, for their current programs. In addition, both Chesapeake and Virginia Beach Public Schools have planetariums offering free shows to the public. You’ll be star-struck!

3. One of the best things about living in Hampton Roads is being surrounded by ocean and waterways. And where there’s a seashore, you’re sure to find lighthouses. Though sadly many of these beautiful historic landmarks are closed for up-close viewing, iconic Cape Henry Lighthouse still beckons visitors. Discover more about Virginia Lighthouses here.

4. Check-in to your local bookstore and/or library for story-time. Most area Barnes & Noble stores have weekly story-time, and local libraries have a plethora of activities from arts & crafts to movie night.

5. As we approach winter, my mind turns to ice skating. The temperature in Hampton Roads may be in the 70′s, but thanks to modern technology, we’re still able to enjoy several area ice skating rinks. Two fun outdoor “pop-up” rinks worth visiting are MacArthur on Ice and Downtown Hampton on Ice.

6. If your children have never seen a Cirque de Soliel performance, add it to their “bucket-list.” Fortunately, Cirque Dreams Holidaze will be performing at Chrysler Hall on limited engagement this weekend. It magical!

7. For a multi-sensory experience, be sure to take the kids to the Norfolk Botanical Gardens. The 155 acre garden is home to numerous bird species, butterflies and themed gardens. There’s even a special children’s garden, World of Wonders – A Children’s Adventure Garden, where kids explore the connections between plants, culture and the environment – all while having fun! New this year- The Million Bulb Walk, a walking tour through spectacular light displays. Now that’s a bright idea!

Oh and don’t forget, the ever illuminating Garden Of Lights kicks off this Thursday.

8. If you have a weakness for the cute psychedelic painted pottery your kindergartener makes (or maybe that’s just mine), quickly get your little Picasso to the nearest Color Me Mine pottery studio. You know that this enrichment activity stimulates your child’s development and senses on so many levels, but they’ll think it’s just paint (I mean plain) fun!

9. Did you know that many of the Chick-fil-A restaurants have Family & Kid’s Night events? Not that I’m encouraging large consumptions of fast food, but if your kids need a break from holiday shopping, they may find some respite here (check with your local restaurant for dates & times). Also, as I was exploring their website for information, I stumbled upon some fun Family Holiday Activities that are sure to please.

10. If you’re like me, I’m always seeking educational activities for my kids to do. And since it’s Thanksgiving, and Native American Heritage Month, visiting close-by Jamestown Settlement is fitting. There are replica ships to explore, detailed museum exhibits to view, a fort and village to tour, musket and glass blowing demonstrations, and hands-on experiences periodically throughout the day, including piloting and navigation, sail handling, canoe making, and cooking. If you go, be sure to print these Kids Museum Guides ahead of time to supplement their experience of the outdoor living-history areas and the exhibition galleries at the Settlement. While they’re busy imagining life in the “old days,” as my son says, this poignant experience will fill you with gratitude for our many blessings.

Happy Thanksgiving! –mas

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Thanksgiving Activity Round-Up

by Marva Smith on November 20,

Make Thanksgiving a bit more kid-festive with some of these fun activities and table-scapes.

Growing up, I never wanted to sit at the kids’ table, probably ’cause ours didn’t look like these!

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We used to have great fun preserving autumn leaves with wax paper.  String these to create a festive garland.

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I love these expressions of thankfulness to do with your holiday guests.

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Check-out this unique thumbprint keepsake of your Thanksgiving gathering.

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Looking for some pre-dinner fun? Everyone loves a scavenger hunt. And the sky’s the limit for what to collect. For a fun twist, have your children discover little known facts about the adult guests.

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I’m definitely going to start the tradition of a family journal to hold an attitude of gratitude throughout the year.

Enjoy!– mas

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Hampton Roads is buzzing this weekend with exciting events to kick-off the holiday and winter season. There’s something for Everyone, everywhere in the region, from parades, craft fairs to cultural arts– oh my!

Holidays In The City

Saturday marks the beginning of “Holidays In The City” in Downtown Norfolk and Olde Towne Portsmouth with a day full of family-friendly activities culminating in the Downtown Norfolk Grand Illumination. Start the day demonstrating your skills on the ice as MacArthur On Ice , Hampton Roads premier outdoor skating rink, opens at 10 a.m. on Saturday at MacArthur Center in Downtown Norfolk, Va.  Festivities continue a few blocks away at the D’Art Center in Selden Arcade, Norfolk, from 10 a.m. – 6 p.m. with the opening of their Holiday Gift Shop. Face painting for kids and unique art pieces for everyone on your gift list.  Kids can also craft “make & take” ornaments at Selden Arcade from 3 p.m. – 6 p.m. Pre-Parade Entertainment along the Grand Illumination Parade Route begins at 5:30 p.m. with the 27th Annual Grand Illumination Parade and Illumination of the Skylines beginning at 7 p.m.

Downtown Hampton On Ice

Hampton Roads boasts another amazing open-air ice skating rink, this one on the Peninsula next to the Virginia Air & Space Museum!

Coliseum Central Holiday Parade

Live entertainment, floats, marching bands and Santa of course! Sat. 9:30 a.m., Hampton.

Crafts

Find one of a kind hand-crafted items for everyone on your gift list at the O Tannenbaum: Old World Christmas Market, Sat. 11 a.m. – 3 p.m., Norfolk; Indian River Christmas Craft Show, Sat. 10 a.m. – 5 p.m. & Sun. 12 p.m. – 4 p.m., Chesapeake; and the 33rd Annual Santa’s Stocking Old Fashioned Craft Bazaar, Sat. 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. &  Sun. 10 a.m. – 4 p.m., Virginia Beach.

While most of the area events are focused on Christmas, we found a perfect pre-Thanksgiving activity in Portsmouth, sure to please! Thanksgiving Nature Crafts for kids ages 6-12, Sun. 2 p.m. – 4:00 p.m. at the Hoffler Creek Wildlife Foundation & Preserve.

Arts

Hampton Roads presents two beloved children’s classics on stage. Rodgers and Hammerstein’s musical, “Cinderella,” Sat. 8 p.m. & Sun. 3 p.m. at Thomas Nelson Community College, Hampton, and Hansel & Gretel, Sun. 2:30 p.m., Harrison Opera House, Norfolk.

Enjoy–mas

The After Party

by Marva Smith 13 November 2011

[R]ecently I held my first pop-up event at a “Sip & See” launch party for a local ObGyn practice.  It was a great family event and a perfect setting for the quiet “birth” of Odie & Penelope. After the last guest departed and the beautiful old house that served as a back-drop for the affair [...]

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